June 29, 2007

We have all heared of Sleep walking but what about Sleep sex?

Posted in Odds and Ends at 11:30 pm by phannypants


If you think it’s impossible to have sex while you sleep, think again, according to a new study.

There are at least 11 different sex-related sleep disorders, collectively referred to as “sexsomnia” or “sleepsex,” that affect people who are otherwise psychologically healthy—causing them to unknowingly engage in various sexual activities during the night.

Carlos Schenck, a psychiatrist at the Minnesota Regional Sleep Disorders Center, and his colleagues have studied a number of behavioral disorders associated with sleep.

“Any basic instinct can come out in the context of sleep,” Schenck says. “All sorts of things can happen.” Recently, he and his colleagues turned their focus to sex-related sleep disorders. They conducted computerized medical literature searches for studies published between 1950 and 2006 related to sleep and sexual behavior and looked through a number of sleep medicine textbooks. They also analyzed data from a previously completed internet survey that had gathered data from 219 people, 92 percent of whom had experienced multiple “sexsomnia” episodes.

Among other things, they found that people—mostly men—sometimes masturbate, initiate sex with a partner and reach orgasm during sleep. They usually have no memory of these activities when they wake up, learning about them only if a partner or roommate tells them.

Some of these activities can also have legal consequences, such as if someone initiates sex without a bed partner’s consent, noted Schenck.

People are at-risk for developing sex-related sleep disorders when they also tend to suffer from other sleep disorders—such as sleepwalking or sleep terrors, according to Schenck. “Sexsomnia doesn’t come out of nowhere,” he said. But “for whatever reason, sexual behaviors become part of the repertoire.”

While people might feel ashamed to learn from their partners that they are exhibiting these behaviors while they sleep, these disorders are not indicative of psychological problems, noted Schenck, whose recently published book, Sleep: The Mysteries, The Problems, and The Solutions, has a chapter devoted to sex-related problems. “Bizarre and inappropriate behavior during sleep does not necessarily reflect a daytime psychological problem.”

And “sexsomnia” disorders are easily treated with medication, he added.

If anything, people who become aware of their problem but don’t seek help put themselves at an even greater risk. “The longer you go with this problem without getting it treated, the more you can then develop a secondary psychological problem,” such as depression, said Schenck, whose study is published this week in the journal Sleep.


Wet Dreams

Posted in Rated Adult at 9:53 pm by phannypants

I went to bed really early last night because I had to get up really early this morning but when I went to bed I was some what sexually aroused. At the time it was no big deal…but oh my god!! It has turned into being a VERY big deal.


 I woke up this morning unbelievably horny (I hate that word; I think it’s an an ugly description of what that feeling represents). In fact to be completely honest, I woke up twice before I actually had to get up this morning. The first time I woke up, it was about one in the morning and the first thought that popped into my head was… ” I wonder if he would get mad if I woke him up,” now  I have raped him in his sleep before and he has never ever complained but I know for a fact he went to bed late and he has to get up early for a LONG day at work.  So I decided against this very tempting idea and went back to bed. I then woke up a second time about an hour before I actually had to get up for work thinking the same thought, ” I wonder If he will get mad if I wake him up,” Only this time it has grown into an even bigger temptation then it was before which means it was even harder to decide against it, but I bit my lip like a trooper and shoved my head into a pillow and made my very aroused self go back to sleep. 


 I think what made this whole ordeal even harder is he was sleeping right next to me, I could have taken advantage of him right then and there but I didn’t. I let him sleep because I knew he was going to have a very long day ahead of him and I didn’t want him to be tired and worn out.  =) So here I am sitting at work thinking about all the fun things I am going to do to him when he and I get home and we are alone.  **Tehehe**

June 28, 2007

They Have To Be Karmasutra Experts!!.

Posted in Odds and Ends at 11:05 pm by phannypants


Ok, so here you have two people (both male and female so i am not considered sexist or any thing) who have to be the champions at the game twister.


My real question is if one contortionist married another contotionist, would they spend all their time working on new positions?


When you just know =)

Posted in My Relationship at 7:25 pm by phannypants

When I was about ten years old, I asked my mom how she knew she loved my dad and her response was very simple and straight to the point. “I just knew.” The prase, “I just knew,”  meant nothing to me since I was only ten and had no concept of what love meant, but it always stuck with me and with each new boyfriend I waited for that ” I just knew feeling,” but always walked away just as confused.

When I first met Clint it was not the normal “Oh he is cute feeling,” it was the“I just knew” feeling,  At the time I already had a boyfriend and was being stabbed in the skin above my belly button with a needle (Clint *who is a body piercer* was piercing my belly button) so I really didn’t put much thought into it, but boy did he keep my mind of the pain. 😉

After we met we really didn’t have any reason to see a lot of each other except for the occasional phone call or random person I would bring over wanting a piercing, but we always seemed to stay in touch one way or another. After a couple of months we eventually just started hanging out for the sake of hanging out. Unfortunately we started really hanging out about a month before he had to leave for his trip around the world.

He was doing a semester at sea  program for school and was going to be gone for about three to four months, which was very exciting on his end and crummy on mine. He very quickly became a great friend and someone I enjoyed hanging out with more than my own best friend so I already knew it was going to be hard to not miss. The part that really sucked was that I already had someone to miss. My boyfriend.

A month prior to him arrival home I called his mom to ask if it was ok throw a welcome home party for him and she said yes. So I immediately got on Myspace (Everyone has one get over it) and contacted any and all of his friends…. No one showed up hahah. So when Clint finally made it home from his long and eventull voiyage I was there waiting for him.

Soon after Clint’s arrival home my boyfriend and I broke up ( go figure) and Clint and I hooked up =) **January 1,  2007** We have been living together since the 8th of April and it has been nothing but that “I just knew” feeling.


Phone Sex

Posted in Stephanie at 5:56 pm by phannypants

No I will not have phone sew with you, I just found this awesome video and wanted to share it with you. =) Its like an internet commercial for this site YouMail.

June 27, 2007

New to the whole Blog thing…

Posted in Stephanie at 9:18 pm by phannypants

Hello everyone, hmm… I have no idea what to talk about…  I guess i can start by giving everyone a few warnings.

Warning Number 1

I can’t spell and my punctuation is almost always way off.  So if you are an anal straight “A” English student (like my wonderful boyfriend) who can’t get past misspelled words and bad punctuation, this blog is not for you. 

Warning Number 2

There are times when I just feel like writing not really about any specific topic or for any specific reason but just for the sake of writing and I am sorry but tends to lead to me either ramble on and on or me repeating myself.

And last but not least Warning Number 3

I am random, inconsistent and forgetful so there will probably be days were I will not post any thing new and there will be times when I will post things completely out of the ordinary.

f you are not willing to be patient with me and deal with the warnings I have given you than you should really move your cursor to the top right hand corner and press the red “x” button.

OH WAIT!! I forgot one… =) I am very repetitive… So if that’s a problem…. you know what to do.